The 2 ft tall tomato thing happened to every gardener here in Vancouver last year, due to the most bizarre 'spring' ever. Our tomatoes were so tall and horrid looking by the time it dried up enough to plant them out in late June; typically we would have them in the ground in late May. Oddly enough they not only recovered from the mistreatment-- but thrived once they had their roots in the soil.
Like you though I do not want to have a repeat performance of this. It was was too much work moving the pots of tomatoes around, and picking them up when the strong winds blew their containers over. I am waiting until April to start my main season tomatoes this year, and in the interim I am having one heck of a good time starting early season and dwarf tomatoes. They are small, cute, and much more manageable indoors.