Prepared some ways, eggplant's a lot like a slice of vegetable bread. Prepared other ways, I suppose it's a lot like vegetable
mush.
Valmom, you don't tell us where "up here" is. I live near the 49th parallel and have a lot of Spring and overnight coolness. That makes it difficult for eggplant which likes it warm, warm, warm.
☼ Eggplant is in the Solanum family with tomatoes and potatoes and cousins to the Capsicum peppers. Sweet pepper culture fits well for their requirements. You are setting out plants rather than burying potato tubers so that can't happen until the weather is warm . . . I think I already said that

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I seem to have success with the smaller fruited varieties rather than the big "bells" and that makes it a little difficult to enjoy them the way I like them best - either breaded and fried or as eggplant parmigiana. The best 2 varieties for those purposes that I've found for this short-season area are Dusky and AppleGreen.
Try the non-purple types. If what you don't like about eggplant is their tendency towards bitterness, lighter-colored types have less of that. The greens, whites and the lavenders seem to me to be a
bitterless group. That allows for the Asian long green types as well as those cute Brides and Caspers and some others that I haven't tried.
Steve