Shallots said:
Maybe with most kids forced to help in the garden - it doesn't become an obsession until it's really their own project entirely.
LOL -- that is my story exactly!
My parents were always waaay into gardening and I was expected to help carry a kajillion orchid pots out of the greenhouse to the shade arbor in early summer and then back inside before frost. This tended to involve a certain amount of dropping things and getting yelled at. My other childhood memories of plants are things like: a penny per every five japanese beetles is not nearly enough; I -hate- radishes, mom, so why do I have to plant them in "my" garden patch?; and when you are a kid it is not at ALL obvious why you shouldn't be allowed to run all over thru the flowerbeds, when after all, many of the plants kinda spring back on their own after getting squished, sorta, right?
I swore I would
never have houseplants or a garden.
Well, when I went off to college mom gave me a little 'prayer plant', but that was ok because it was sort of an antidote to homesickness. Then in grad school I was privy to the really cool things getting divided at the Duke botany greenhouse, for free, or sometimes inexpensive at their plant sale. I had learned enough by osmosis from my parents to realize I'd never see some of these things again, so, I started accumulating weirdo houseplants. Plus I was doing my dissertation work at a site that had formerly housed a behavioral-research herd of goats, so faced with fantastic soil and a grad student's income I decided that veg gardening was really pretty ok. Especially cantaloupes and okra and tomatoes.
This lasted thru a nymber of moves and a number of years, til in 2002-3 I found myself married, unemployed, and with a house plopped down in the middle of open windy fields and lawn, with nothing but a few very ill-chosen trash trees anywhere near it. "Well," I said to myself, "Sure, ornamentals don't interest me at
all, but as a purely practical matter I just I have to put SOMEthing in to cut the wind and make this house look less like a trailer." So I read everything I could get my hands on about trees and shrubs. Hm, there are actually some interesting ones...
Predictably, this resulted in a lengthy 'to do' list of spots to plant and species to try.
Then at about the same time my husband suggested that the area right in front of the living room window, which has to be dug up every 5 years to pump the septic tank, could be made a permanent mulched path. But that wouls look weird unless it was facing something like a flowerbed, right? So I read up on flowers, and for the first time in like 40 years actually paid *ATTENTION* to my mother's beds and borders...
...and, uh, a few years later here I am, sheepishly a gardener after all. I guess
My mother, now in her 80s, thinks this is
hysterically funny :>
Pat