Just a small disclaimer inserted......

[boggybranch]

Since my psyche has been irreversible altered over the last 2 1/2+ years, I have a tendency to be a little bit "scattered", at times. From what I've researched, during that time, it's a "normal" process of redefining one's self and life after a traumatic and totally devastating loss. And according to the "experts", the process will never be completed. It'll ALWAYS be a "work" in progress (kinda like the road work on the interstate)......Soooooo, with that being said, SOMETIMES, ya just might have to "pay me no mind"...........Guess that 'bout covers it.

 

[canesisters]

It's ok Boggybranch. Been there.
It eventually all sort of comes back together (mostly) after a while.

 

[so lucky]

Boggy, I lost my 91 year old dad a couple of years ago. I know that what I have gone through can't compare to what you have gone through, because my dad was old and very sick. It was a blessing when he finally went, in some ways. I can't imagine your journey, but it seems to have been a very courageous one. I applaud you for getting back on here after taking some time to allow yourself to feel and grieve. You have lots of support here. We're generally a very patient lot, too, as you have probably found out.

 

[baymule]

Don't worry about it Boggy. I haven't suffered a loss like yours, but I am off the "normal" charts and a bit scattered too. Sounds like we are in some good company here!

 

[Carol Dee]

Good Heavens, that is nothing to worry about with us. We will take you just as you are. You where missed friend. And Normal... What exactly is *Normal*? For me scattered and absentminded IS normal.

 

[boggybranch]

Good Heavens, that is nothing to worry about with us. We will take you just as you are. You where missed friend. And Normal... What exactly is *Normal*? For me scattered and absentminded IS normal.

Glad to hear that......cause I resemble that remark, a lot. LOL