Good to hear of your brother. Stuff like what you're going through is really hard, and I can not imagine your pain that you'll be going though. I'm lucky that our aunt has already left a will.
Very interesting that he was that way. My aunt had realised she had something wrong on her first time with cancer, but didn't realise it this time until a blood test. Then after a CT scan she learned how she didn't know if it before. Things are in writing though, and she told us what to do when...
Wish I could say more then stay strong. I never realized I'd say this to you, but I'm really watching your decisions at this point with him, I feel that I'll be amongst those making similar decisions with my aunt in a couple years, as she has Cancer all over.
Just found this. Never easy letting go, or for a vet to make the decision. Near brings me to tears thinking about when my dad made those decisions. But when a cat that loves treats makes you break the treat open for them to eat it, something hasn't been okay for a long time. And when they loose...