My wife was an only child and daddy's girl as his shaddow... she " helped" him fix cars, change light bulbs, work in their garden, feed and water chickens, etc. . After she graduated from a University with a degree in Animal Science ( she wanted to become a Veterinarian ) we met and got married and lived in 6 seperate homes that I built then on a farm where I built our home, barns and had a horse business. Do you think that she would even change a light bulb or garden or feed and water the chickens and rabbits, sheep or the horses. Nope ! However She is a , a great mother of 3 and now a grandmother of 6, a great cook, a fabulous ( she has a photografic memory ) business auditor, and a book worm.