I heart you Red. My 10 day looks real good so I have some tomatoes and peppers out, plus I've got bean and corn seeds in the ground. I think I'll be OK with the vegetables this year if we get rain.
Last year I had a problem, we had snow accumulation on May 1, the latest date on record. My fruit trees were hit real hard and some plants I put out were stunted. Some tomatoes never did fully recover though I kept them alive. They produced but not much. I'd have been better off ripping them out, but by the time I realized that, it was too late.
The year before that my last freeze/frost was about three weeks early. I succumbed to the temptation to get some tomatoes and such out a couple of weeks early and was rewarded. Fruit was really nice. It's a game of risk and reward.
You win a few and lose a lot. You dress out for all of them and some are rained out. To me the key I that you dress out for all of them. You don't quit. Wish you luck up there with your decisions.