There's that animated movie, Ralph breaks the Internet. I didn't even know that you had posted this, Carol Dee. The website was offline for over 24 hours.
Conspiracy-thinking, the thought occurred to me that Nifty was sending each of us to our room until we decided that it was better to "get along" with each other and stop fighting. It should have worked.
Humans have such a surly tendency to blame others for problems. This is especially true with adults and it tends to worsen with aging. And yet, "The measure of intelligence is the ability to change.” Albert Einstein said. "If you're not changing, you're not growing. If you're not growing, you're not being intelligent. Humans thrive in change and expansion ..."
We don't want you to change how you interact on TEG, Carol Dee. You have been such an important positive here. Yes, that "P U" post you just put up on the "humor" thread: We have done it elsewhere where we have broken off from talking about gardening. We can do it on the garden subjects also but we probably tend to realize notions of infallibility in the garden are imagined, and we are more likely to be humble.
I can't pick up some of that Happy Birthday responsibility you have been so willing to carry. You may remember the last time I tried to be of some help there and mixed up TEG anniversaries with birthdays ... probably offended someone who felt that celebrating two birthdays within a matter of weeks was something of a burden. Any acceptance to the thought that you won't be around is a burden on the entire forum community.
Steve