so lucky
Garden Master
Bobm, I hope you are doing much better by now. I wasn't following this thread for several days, and had no idea you had been sick. I have had experiences with doctors who have a god complex, and share your frustration. The other thing is doctors who only see you as "a kidney" or "a bowel resection" or whatever their specialty is. My friend had a bowel resection and no one--not a doctor or nurse--bothered to tell her that her normal functioning would be totally out of whack when she finally got hooked back up. No one told her to eat yogurt, or suggested how to get the good bacteria going again. She has been miserable for nearly a year. (But the operation was a "success"!)