I live with a clean freak also, so even if I were inclined to let things go, she would never allow it.
NY, looks like a man's car, for sure...tires, cig butts, etc.
I usually keep cars I really like cleaner than those I had to buy on the fly and didn't especially care for, but still never got to that level...guess it's a girl thing. I've also discovered that mechanics usually treat your car better and you get better service if you have a clean, well kept car as opposed to a trash can on wheels.
My boy uses the same mechanic as I do and gets completely different results, service, and even cordiality than do I. He complains to me about that, which tickles me...usually it's a single woman that's getting that kind of result, so it's kind of cool to have the shoe on the other foot....but I've concluded it's because he shows he doesn't really care about his car, so those working on it don't care about it either. At least, that's my take on it....
