You didn't ask for my recipe but here it is anyway..................
First go threaten the chickens that they need to start laying.
Next, gather extra eggs and trade for bacon ends with my neighbor.
Go to garden, harvest okra, peppers, garlic, and onions.
Prepare vegetables. Cut the okra in 1/3" pieces, peppers, onions, bacon in small pieces and garlic either mash it or real, real small pieces. On okra throw the stem part out, it's TOUGH.
Fry the bacon, have to add a little oil as dang neighbor gives me bacon that doesn't contain enough fat in it, I'll deal with them later.......
Sometimes I coat the okra w/spices and mix of flour and cornmeal, sometimes it goes in straight.
About half way done, add peppers. What is half way done? Your'll know the next time you fry it.
When about 3/4 done, add onions and garlic. What is 3/4 done? See answer in above line.
When it looks almost burnt (okra changes color from green to light green to dark green-almost burnt color), it's ready to eat.
Add salt and pepper just a few minutes before done. When is done? See answer to 3/4 done.
Guaranteed not SLIMEY. If you cook it till it's done, it's real good. None goes to waste here. I grab my portion before letting wife/kids know it's done. Makes a great Sunday night meal or Saturday meal or any other day that the chickens and okra decide to get on the right page together. If you don't have chickens or neighbors to get bacon off of, I don't really know what to tell you. I guess, use someone elses's recipe.