During the heat of every summer, the roses were attacked by spider mites in the greenhouse where I worked. Some years, they have been absolutely terrible in my current dahlia garden.
This year, they haven't been ... It's an especially hot and dry summer. The new distance from evergreen trees should have helped. There is no longer a row of a neighbor's arborvitae beside the dahlias. The evergreens can be absolutely covered with spider mites, some years.
In the greenhouse, we considered a good hosing-down with water worth as much as a commercial insecticide. Tomato plants are not roses. Foliage would be damaged if they had the blasting we gave those bushes.
@flowerbug has it right about insecticidal soap. There are probably other horticultural oils that would work. All contact bug killers, tho. It would be hard to reach all the mites with any spray. I bet that they have enormous reproductive abilities.
High humidity is a near unknown to me although the greenhouse was certainly more humid than my outdoors currently. Mites have sure been bothersome for me in other years. .Good Luck, Spookybird.
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hoping to not jinx the garden