Its ok. I am in charge and nobody listens to me. Frankly I often wonder how we managed to get a rocket to the moon when my experience is that it should have ended up at the center of the earth.had that happen to us one trip to FL.
when they got some guys to help pull the van out of the surf they didn't know how to hook up the tow rope so they also managed to damage the fender of the van.
note, i was not in charge and nobody ever listens to me.
still was a fun time.