I guess I need to think about an avatar, too, although I really don't know what it would be. Sink full of dirty dishes? muddy shoes? empty gas tank?
I chose my name just to put a positive spin to my thoughts and my prattling. I do feel lucky for so many things, such as being as healthy as I am, not having an abusive spouse, having loving children, living in a safe place, having plenty to eat. I am not particularly "religious" in the usual sense, so I felt calling myself "so blessed" or something similar would signify a mantle around me that is not necessarily there. And although I am often cynical, I am also cheerful most of the time. So "Smiles" might have been a choice, too. Good thing it's taken!