Tell your husband that in 2023 you will have the most wonderful, fertile, homemade potting soil that it won't need the addition of any fertilizer.
Then, compost a good combination of appropriate material. Mix that with your best garden soil and then ...
... just before he shows up at home some afternoon, pop your homemade, wonderfully fertile potting soil, that might have a few weed seeds in it, pop that in the oven for an hour at about 200°. Oh, and you and the kids might want to spend that hour at the neighborhood playground. Sure, the oven might have an automatic shut-off so there is no reason not to take advantage of that.
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